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Emotions for our Future – Empathy


Reported by John

Published on Tuesday, January 16th, 2024

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Emotions for our Future – Empathy


Written by John

Published on Tuesday, January 16th, 2024

Identity

Service Delivery

Volunteering and Employment

 

Hello everyone, it’s John Chiko. So today I will be starting a series called Emotions For Our Future, which will be focused on the emotions I believe will help humanity solve its many problems and build a better future for us all. The first emotion I want to talk about is empathy, which I believe is the catalyst to showing care to those who are in pain and discomfort. Empathy is the ability to understand and share someone else’s feelings and experiences. This, to be more specific, empathy  is achieved by imagining what that person is going through and putting yourself in their shoes, or rather understanding  their emotions and experiences from their perspective.

I believe that this ability is essential to communicate effectively with everyone that we interact with in our lives. It is essential to communicate with anyone that is not us, anyone that is not living the same life as we are, someone on a different path for one reason or another. It is usually those that have felt pain that are most open to helping those that are feeling it, because they understand. People are less likely to act or acknowledge anything that they are dissociated from. It’s most likely someone that has experienced homelessness that will take action to help and prevent homelessness for those that are experiencing it, because they understand the loneliness, the isolation and the darkness that can swallow you at your most vulnerable time.

If more people were empathetic, then they would most likely act against most of the injustices that they see take place in front of their eyes, in their own communities. People are not in bad places because they are bad people, no. It’s because people are in pain. Understanding this collectively, would allow us to find the root causes of the problems we are facing and treating them, with the aid of people who truly want to fix these problems. If empathy itself could speak, then it would have two phrases, “I understand” and “I will help”. But what I do understand is that empathy is a very powerful draining emotion, it is not for the faint-hearted.

I believe that to tackle homelessness across the UK, we must find skilled people that have empathy based on their work and personal experience. Doing so would allow us to create collectives and networks that will allow us to find solutions to homelessness by putting our knowledge, experience, and resources together to create practical solution to homelessness with the areas that we live and operate in. It is a tall order, but in all honesty, it is the most practical solutions, because really and truly these are our problems at the end of the day. Most organisations are solely focused on profit without any of the corporate social responsibility.

But that is my first of emotion for our future, Empathy. I understand, I will help.

Written by John


Hello everyone, my name is John Chikondewa Mpaso and I am 29 years old. I am from Harare, Zimbabwe and I have lived in England for 19 years now. Ever since moving to England in 2004, I have lived in Coventry, where I attended Secondary School and Sixth Form at Lyng Hall School. Currently I am an Outreach Officer for an organisation called ININI which focuses on providing mental health services to Migrant and Local Communities. I am also Commitee Secretary for an organisation called CARAG (Coventry Asylum Refugee Action Group), which specialises in providing a range of services for Migrants and Refugees living in Coventry and the West Midlands. I become involved with ListenUp!, through a recommendation by the previous Commitee Chair of CARAG Lorraine Mponela, who shared with the group the opportunity to become a Volunteer Community Journalist for Groundswell, who would be able to capture the stories, thoughts and ideas of people who are experiencing homelessness within the areas they are a living in. Due to my own experience with homelessness and that of the people that I work with and know personally, I believed that I was in the position to capture real life stories, real time that can legitimately describe the various issues that cause homelessness to the people that live in Coventry. I believe that it is my duty to tell the real story of the homeless crisis that is being faced by the people of Coventry, both migrant and native, as I hear and see their stories play out everyday and I believe that it is on fact on one big story, that needs to be shared with the world, so that we all may truly understand the true causes of homelessness, including the many dangers and hardship that it brings forth to the people that are experiencing it. The people that I work with are my biggest inspiration, as they come in many forms like colleagues, friends and family, which has shown me that what makes humanity one, is our thoughts and feelings. It is our actions and what we do for humanity that will truly create a change, and it is up to us to take on that responsibility. It's time to Listen Up! and Make a change.

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